Being single on Valentine's Day

Hello again!!

I know it's my second post tonight, but I really wanted to publish this one tonight too, because I felt like a lot of people could benefit from it, and that it'd be better to read it before the day of. So, here we are!

This post is mostly going to be a pick-me-up cheer up for the singles (like me) on Valentine's Day, because I know how depressive it can be. I'm going to do a point list of advantages of being single on Valentine's Day. And if you're taken, well, go away!! This post isn't for you. Go enjoy your love life!

1. You have no pressure

You don't have to plan a Valentine's Day date, who needs to plan it, when and where, the money that comes with it, the stress, wanting to make it perfect, finding the perfect gift, having to spend money, and all of that. When you're single, you just vibe.

2. Discounted chocolate

The day after Valentine's Day, you just get to enjoy discounted chocolate for yourself, without having to buy some for someone else, and can just eat it all for you. Enjoy the discounted things.

3. Self care

Valentine's Day is the best for doing a self care day or night. Depending on what your thing is, you could do a spa night, take a bath, read, watch movies, just do things that make you happy!!! Just take time for yourself and make the day all about you, you deserve it!! Valentine's Day the holiday of love, not couple! So focus on yourself, love yourself, and treat yourself.

4. Be mindful about the advantages you have of being single

Be grateful of every little thing about being single. Like, you appreciate waking up every morning in your bed? Well, now, it's yours and THEIRS bed, there's always going to be someone when you wake up, you're gonna have no privacy, always someone around, always stressing out about if they're cheating, if you're ptetty enough, etc. You can do things that your signifiant other would judge you for, watch things you like. Enjoy the calmness of the single life!

5. Realize you're not actually alone

Something I hear a lot about people being single on Valentine's Day is how they're alone and will always be alone. The thing is, you're not alone! You have people that love you and appreciate you and are grateful to have you in their life. They are happy because you make their lives better. And those people, they're more important than any lover could ever be. So, remember that you're actually not alone, and you'Re actually very loved!!

I'm going to stop here. I could go on for much longer, but I really wanted to keep it short to the BEST tips for a better list. So, if you're single for Valentine's Day, remember it's just a day, it's not the end of the world, and it's all going to be okay!

I love you all,

The Indecisive xxx